Sometimes We Get Too Comfortable

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What I mean by getting too comfortable is in regards to being online.  We tend to stay in our own little cyber world if you will.  We find our friends and pretty much stay inside that circle forgetting that those outside that circle can still see what we share with our closest online friends via twitter, facebook or any other means of social media.

I see it all the time, people stating what they are doing and where they are, if they are out of town or at home alone with a spouse out of town.  It just gives me chills every time I read those messages.  Call me paranoid but there are just too many people lurking online just watching for info and sadly it’s just too easy to find.  People fall victim to cyber crimes all the time. Children get lured into situations they shouldn’t, people fall victim to emails all the time.  It just takes one time, one second of putting our guard down and it could be at that very second we become to comfortable and slip up and become a victim.

I try and catch TheOnlineMom weekly twitter chat and a lot of the discussions revolve around internet security (not just for our computers but for our family and financial safety) and some of the facts that get shared are actually a little scary to think about.  Last night it was mentioned that conferences held by cyber-criminals take place.  You wouldn’t normally think cyber-criminal conferences would be allowed to take place but I guess they are.  People use info about shared travel plans to commit crimes.  Keep things like that in mind when posting on social networking sites.  Don’t set yourself up.  I fell victim to a cyber crime once and I guess since then I’ve just been a little more paranoid so while it was a bad thing maybe the entire situation actually made me more aware now which is a good thing.

The Clock is Ticking Now

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Tick, tick, tick . . . time is moving quickly now.  If you’ve been watching the blog lately I’m sure you’ve noticed a few changes here and there including the “Something Exciting Is Coming” button has now become a countdown clock!

Are you anxious yet? I am!  I’m not going to share all the details about it just yet but soon I promise.  Just keep an eye out on that clock and it will be revealed very soon.  Oh, so much to do still but I just wanted to pop in and catch you up a little bit.

I did take a few days offline to give myself and my brain a little, yet very much needed break and I’m back and feeling refreshed and ready to rock!

I’m working on a few background and foreground things to get the blog ready for the big unveiling.

I’ve also added a Networked Blog widget at the bottom of the blog so come on and follow along and don’t forget you can always connect with me via twitter or facebook just click on one of those pretty little hearts over on the sidebar and you are always more than welcome to leave a comment.

photo by Nanette Gomez. All rights reserved.

11 Summertime Boredom Busters

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Are you ready for the  “I’m bored, mom” line?  How are you going to handle it?  Do you need a few ideas for busting the summer time boredom before it sets in? Dr. Mary Zum and Primrose Schools have some tips to offer with these 11 Boredom Buster ideas. To keep my kid’s brains stimulated over the summer we do some of these already.  Did you know children can lose up to 60 percent of what they learned during the school year. (That’s a lot.)

1. Boredom Buster Jar At the beginning of the summer, sit down with your family and brainstorm a list of activities that can be done alone or that you can enjoy doing together. Encourage your children to share their own ideas and help you decorate and label a simple jar as the family “Boredom Buster Jar.”  They’ll feel more involved in the project and more likely to think this is a “neat” idea, if they participate in the creation and idea generation. Next, write everyone’s ideas down on slips of paper and as a group decide which ones should go in the jar. Anyone in the family can pull any idea out of the jar to fight the summertime boredom blues.

2.   Stories Alive It sounds too simple, but reading is one of the most important waysto keep young minds engaged during the summer.Make reading even more fun by finding ways to bring the stories to life. For example, in the book Roxaboxen by Alice McLerran, children create a make-believe town in the desert out of rocks, boxes, and their imaginations. Read the book with your children and then challenge them to create their own town with materials they find in the backyard.

3.  Art Start Box You’ll need to gather basic art supplies-child safe scissors, glue, markers, tape and construction paper. Put them in a special box along with empty oatmeal boxes and paper towel rolls, colorful magazines and bits of aluminum foil. Occasionally add a special surprise like chalk, stickers, or stamp pads so there’s always something new for the children to find. Even if you normally have these supplies around the house, it’s fun for children to know that the Art Start Box is just for them. They’ll probably have some good ideas of other household items that can be recycled to fuel their creative energies.

4.  Family Performances Break out old clothes or costumes and encourage children to make up characters and create a play to act out.  They are the directors, actors, and producers.  They can also make musical instruments out of pots/pans, wooden spoons, empty canisters and have a parade; or everyone can play along to your family’s favorite songs. Record or video the performances, and enjoy the replay.  You’ll also be capturing a bit of family history everyone will enjoy for years to come.

5.  Family Dance Party Crank up the music and encourage your entire family to boogie down. Dancing gives children a great outlet for self-expression through their own motion and helps build self-esteem. It also enhances motor and coordination development by incorporating skills like jumping, landing and leaping.  Dancing is a great activity that can involve the whole family and doesn’t take very much preparation.

6.  Fort Building Children love to build all kinds of structures–from small towns to large towers. Constructing forts or tents is an activity that can keep children focused and problem solving for hours. All the items you need can be found around the house- some chairs, cushions, blankets, and of course adult supervision.

7.  Cookbook Fun Have you ever shared your favorite cookbook with your children?  Take it out and ask your children to choose a recipe to try. Measuring can be a fun and easy way to keep math skills fresh.

8.  Summer Scrapbook All you need for this project is a spiral notebook. Encourage everyone in the family to draw pictures of favorite activities and collect mementos from special events throughout the summer.   Children love to go back through scrapbooks and albums and tell about what happened at each occasion.  They will also be building their storytelling skills at the same time.

9.  Listening Game Lie down in the backyard, in the den or at the park and listen.  What do you hear? Do you hear what I hear? Can you imitate the sound? This is similar to watching the clouds and naming the shapes, and it encourages everyone to slow down and focus on listening.

10.  Camping Out Pretend to campout in the backyard. Plan a meal, pack a backpack and set up a campsite.  You might even decide to spend the night!

11.  Scavenger Hunt Make a list or picture cards of common household items and have your children find the items on the list. Invite friends or neighbors to join in the fun to make it a competition.

Wasn’t that a great list?  I am going to try some of these with my kids cause I know that “I’m bored, mom” line will eventually rear it’s head but I’m going to be ready for it!  You can find more great trips by checking out Dr. Zurn’s blog and Primrose Schools.

Disclosure: I was entered for a chance to win a gift card in exchange for this post.  No monetary exchange took place.